Sugar, spice and Everything nice… with a touch of chemical Ex

There are just so many delightful things I could say about both of my spectacular sisters, and believe me, I absolutely will! However, for now, let's consider this written piece merely an introductory snapshot. My stories going forward will lovingly reference these beautiful women who hold such a significant place in my heart, and I genuinely can't wait to share these tales with you. But to truly understand me, you need to acknowledge that without these incredible women by my side, I simply wouldn’t be sharing any of these stories at all. I’m a firm believer in the idea that everyone we encounter in our lives comes into our orbit for one reason or another. It didn’t take me long to realize precisely why God decided to bless me with the presence of my dear sisters, Bubbles and Buttercup. If someone were to casually ask me what my ex’s sisters were like, I would enthusiastically tell you that, for starters, they are unequivocally MY sisters; Bird got the furniture, but I got the family! Secondly, I would confidently share that they are, without a doubt, two-thirds of my soul. They say that twin flames are essentially one soul split into two distinct entities, but once I met these amazing women, I quickly realized that, in fact, my soul had been split into three beautiful parts instead. I truly wouldn't have made it this far without their unwavering support and love, so allow me to introduce you to my sisters, my better halves, and the remarkable individuals who have been my saving grace through all of life’s ups and downs.

I remember the first time Bird and I talked. I was really skeptical because it was my first try at online dating, and I didn't know what to expect, especially from someone over 300 miles away. I asked him how his awesome sisters would describe him, and he quickly replied, “I don’t know, ask them!” From then on, I’ve loved them. And here’s some reasons why.

Bubbles:

When Bubbles and I first met, I felt an instant connection, and I knew almost immediately that she would play an irreplaceable role as a friend for life. Bubbles is just like her delightful namesake; she embodies pure joy and laughter. Her heart is a marvel, somehow managing to grow with every person she encounters because the love she shares is truly limitless. As the best interior designer I know, Bubbles consistently goes above and beyond to ensure that birthdays and holidays are not just celebrated but are transformed into unforgettable experiences. She finds immense joy in making others happy, perhaps even more than I do, which is saying quite a lot! But when I reflect on my wonderful sister, the thought that springs to mind most often is how she was the brilliant beacon that guided me back to the shore—ultimately leading me back to having faith once again.

The year 2024 was without a doubt one of the hardest years of my life, and I must admit that the struggle broke me down in ways I had never anticipated, causing me to question everything I held dear. Yet, even in my darkest hour, the radiant light Bubbles brought into my shadowy world was always there to gently remind me that God is with me, even when it felt like He was far away. I was raised as a believer, and I always thought that simply believing was sufficient, but Bubbles helped me realize the profound difference between merely believing in Christ and truly following Him with all my heart. This realization stands as perhaps the greatest lesson she has imparted to me.

Anyone can proclaim that they believe in Christ; it’s easy to attend church every Sunday and confidently declare that you are a good Christian or Catholic or whatever denomination you choose, but if your actions don’t align with your beliefs, then it’s not Christ you’re truly following; it’s merely the crowd. For years, I followed the crowd, thinking naively that it would suffice in the Lord's eyes. However, Bubbles has taught me that the crowd itself is often lost, and while I believe that all roads may lead to Christ, when you genuinely follow the Lord, truly with all your being, the path becomes remarkably clear.

Buttercup

She may be the youngest of us, yet there’s absolutely no doubt that Buttercup is the toughest fighter around. If you ask me, she is undoubtedly one of the world’s most amazing mothers, and it’s those invaluable lessons about motherhood that make Buttercup someone I will forever admire immensely. Some women are simply born to be mothers, and Buttercup is certainly one of them. The unconditional and fiercely protective way she loves her children is something I wish I could say is typical among all parents, but somehow, she takes it to a completely new level that is awe-inspiring. She is raising four beautiful children in a world where virtues like morals and respect are becoming rarer and rarer commodities, but within her home, they seem to flow effortlessly like a river. There is truly nothing she wouldn’t do for her kids, and even on her most challenging days, she manages to outshine even the best of moms with her radiant spirit. I often find myself glance at my own kids, and while I think I’m a good mom, the shining example that Buttercup sets is just the encouragement I need to strive to be a better mom every single day. The children she is raising are some of the most well-adjusted and well-behaved kids I have ever had the pleasure of meeting, and it’s the boundless love and guidance of their mother that has undoubtedly led them to this remarkable point. I hold onto hope for future generations because I know that my nieces and nephew are destined to be shining lights in this sometimes dark world, and it is all due to the truly amazing woman their mother is. She is entirely too hard on herself, often overlooking her own worth. Despite having a heart of gold, it has been broken a time or two throughout her journey, yet she continues to bravely pick up the pieces and march forward determinedly for her beloved family. She radiates beauty both inside and out, and astonishingly, she hasn't even reached her 30s yet. The world better watch out, because she and her little warriors are clearly destined for greatness. Just you wait and see!.

So there you have it, a glimpse into my world and the beautiful hearts that reside behind it. You will hear so much more about my incredible sisters soon, but until then, let me take a moment to remind them right here and now that they are truly beautiful, they are endlessly loved, they are deeply appreciated, and I really couldn’t imagine existing in a world without their vibrant spirits. I love them infinitely, and because of their existence, I am genuinely blessed beyond measure.